What should you do if a child discloses abuse?
1. Believe in the child
lack of belief will discourage the abused from disclosing
2. Listen openly and calmly
give the child your full attention
put the child first and put your feelings (anger, frustration or pain) aside
3. Reassure the child
be supportive
tell the child what has happened is not his/her fault
never make promises
4. Write down the facts
record all the facts the child has disclosed to you
avoid interpreting what the child has said; use the child's exact words
contact your local police or your local child welfare agency
Prevention
1. Support prevention programs
2. Attend parenting skills workshops or programs
3. Act when you see an mistreatment of a child
4. Talk to your children about their bodies. Explain to them what is apporopriate and inappropriate touching and how to get help if they need it